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Real Love is not based on romance, candle light dinners and walks along the beach.
In fact, is based on RESPECT, COMPROMISE, CARE AND TRUST.
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- Tuesday, February 07, 2012
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| The Scene. I remember every time I take train. |
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| The train. I recall how 'speed' of it. |
Initially, I don't have the mood but why I keep thought of [it] at home?
As mom is alone, and as a daughter I got the responsibility to go with her.
Camera is brought along as mom wish to take some photo for reference.
We took train (KTM & LRT) to the destination.
It recall back last time my mom don't have car license, when I was a kid, she used to hold my hand and we ride the public bus to the place she wanted.
She hold our hand tight just don't wish we get lost, she brought us to somewhere to buy the daily thing or our thing she need for home.
It recall back how the way she cares for us while she brought us out.
And now, my turn.
A day. Let me exchange the role with her.
I hold her hand tight as I don't wish other push my mom while inside or outside the train,
I remind my mum do caution the doorstep while step out from train as she seldom take train.
Meanwhile, I follow her footstep as she couldn't walk that fast like last time.
I remember last time the way she hold my hand and follow my footstep when I was a kid.
So I shouldn't rush her while other was rushing their footstep, conversely I should follow how fast my mom can follow.
I share my story with mom how the 4 years plus I took train/walk to here & there when I was a student.
I told my mom, sometime still feel that insecure when I'm alone after the bad experience I been through but still I have to move forward. I tell myself, still I have to learn tough, just like how my mom learn to be tough the way she cares for us (her family), right?
While pass by a candy shop, she told me that.
"Daughter, I still remember..."
Last time she used to hold the camera and help us (her kid) to snap the pictures with those display toy or with a nice scenery.
She remember the things she pass through before, that's why I believe she wish to keep every good moment with family.
Of course, do not forget help mom carried the things she hold on hand.
It's funny while she asked me that "It's heavy, are you sure you going to carry?"
I conjecture, all along, she used to be bear how heavy of the burden as a mom,therefore she asked me that. I stunned and smiles back as I understand.
"Mom, it's my turn to help you carry the heavy things as I can."
I knew how much of the argument I always have with my mom.
I knew sometime she feel bit jealous and kept on mentioned how my dad "sek" me more than other siblings.
Yet, I knew she is still the one who concern my family all the time she can.
I smiles. As I know.
All along, my dad be very fond of my mom & Love my mom.
Just like how much my mom Love my dad.
How much of their argument, still I believe they Love each other.
A simple way to show a care for her.
Yet, It's been a year plus I do not step into KLCC, it has changed alot that open my eye's views.
I wish I could have time to do some window shopping but time is not allow and we have to go back before the crowded.
That's all for tonight.
I'm feeling exhausted. and still I couldn't avoid [it] & I miss [it].
We took train (KTM & LRT) to the destination.
It recall back last time my mom don't have car license, when I was a kid, she used to hold my hand and we ride the public bus to the place she wanted.
She hold our hand tight just don't wish we get lost, she brought us to somewhere to buy the daily thing or our thing she need for home.
It recall back how the way she cares for us while she brought us out.
And now, my turn.
A day. Let me exchange the role with her.
I hold her hand tight as I don't wish other push my mom while inside or outside the train,
I remind my mum do caution the doorstep while step out from train as she seldom take train.
Meanwhile, I follow her footstep as she couldn't walk that fast like last time.
I remember last time the way she hold my hand and follow my footstep when I was a kid.
So I shouldn't rush her while other was rushing their footstep, conversely I should follow how fast my mom can follow.
I share my story with mom how the 4 years plus I took train/walk to here & there when I was a student.
I told my mom, sometime still feel that insecure when I'm alone after the bad experience I been through but still I have to move forward. I tell myself, still I have to learn tough, just like how my mom learn to be tough the way she cares for us (her family), right?
While pass by a candy shop, she told me that.
"Daughter, I still remember..."
Last time she used to hold the camera and help us (her kid) to snap the pictures with those display toy or with a nice scenery.
She remember the things she pass through before, that's why I believe she wish to keep every good moment with family.
Of course, do not forget help mom carried the things she hold on hand.
It's funny while she asked me that "It's heavy, are you sure you going to carry?"
I conjecture, all along, she used to be bear how heavy of the burden as a mom,therefore she asked me that. I stunned and smiles back as I understand.
"Mom, it's my turn to help you carry the heavy things as I can."
I knew how much of the argument I always have with my mom.
I knew sometime she feel bit jealous and kept on mentioned how my dad "sek" me more than other siblings.
Yet, I knew she is still the one who concern my family all the time she can.
I smiles. As I know.
All along, my dad be very fond of my mom & Love my mom.
Just like how much my mom Love my dad.
How much of their argument, still I believe they Love each other.
The moment we want to believe something, we suddenly see all the arguments for it, and become blind to the arguments against it.
Sometimes love blinds us, other times it let's us see.
A day I spent my time with her, I found the meaningful moment.
Gradually I observe she is getting old, while the time she have to wear her reading glasses to read something.
She is still that cute while I hold her hand and the way she talked.Yes! My beloved mom.
A simple way to show a care for her.
Yet, It's been a year plus I do not step into KLCC, it has changed alot that open my eye's views.
I wish I could have time to do some window shopping but time is not allow and we have to go back before the crowded.
That's all for tonight.
I'm feeling exhausted. and still I couldn't avoid [it] & I miss [it].
Florence
- Sunday, October 23, 2011
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That day, my youngest sister share me a surprise that she told me, she went to sing K with friends and she saw a picture (as below) in the Music Video sang by 林宇中 <<叫阮的名>> then only I realize my picture was selected by the organizers as good memoirs for myself & my parent.
I never expect they will select my photo, I'm extremely excited when my sister told me that.
It recalls me that last year before I went to UK for my study, I read a new from newspaper that one of the Hokkien song from Rynn Lim (林宇中) searching some photos to put in the music video- 林宇中重新演绎《叫阮的名》 征求溫馨合照拍摄MV.
Without much hesitate, I found this picture, attach it and mail some words that I wish to voice out for my beloved parent and world.
It was my Diploma graduation photo. As my point of view, photo bring a story behind the scene. Parent always wish to take photo with their children to keep the best memories.
For parent, they wish to wash the photo and keep it as record. While they getting old, they will take the photos out and reminisce the memoirs as much as they have.
I recall back that it was the first time I took picture with them by formal attire(Graduation gown), it is how important of the moment, the way they feel proud when they saw their kid grown up & graduated & on the stage to receive the cert.
Guys, still remember... when you're a little kid, parent hold your hand and send you for the kinder-garden school. I bet you might shed tear, feel strange to the new place but parent wish you understand the enjoyment of study.
When you're ready for primary school, parent send you to school by carry your bag and water bottle. They knew how heavy of the books and your homework, still they remind you this & that and this proves they loved you.
They even send you for any talented class or tuition class to motivate your knowledgeable.
When the time you're ready for secondary school, they send you as well but they also wish you're ready to learn independent which you have to decide the things by yourself.
When the time you're ready for secondary school, they send you as well but they also wish you're ready to learn independent which you have to decide the things by yourself.
And what they was worries about, your Rebellious period, your laziness, your decision.
They knew you might start mingle with new friends, and worry you learn the thing they don't wish it happen.
They loved you, therefore argument begin with parent while your rebellious period. Still they wish to taught you the right thing as they loved you.
While you're ready for college/University stage, parent let you choose what you wish to achieve.
They will give some guidance if you need it, still they will respect what you wish to choose.
Parent know they couldn't hold you that much more, it's time to let yourself handle it & learn how much you can.
You decide the path that you wish to have. One thing you should know, while you fall down, parent still there to hold you up but not the every-time.
While you fall down, you should learn to be tough, climb up yourself to get the thing you wanted.
While you fall down, you should learn to be tough, climb up yourself to get the thing you wanted.
Bear in mind, parent walked through the path they been before and it's your time to learn & appreciate yourself & them.
Don't give up yourself or them. Learn to be, act to be.
Don't give up yourself or them. Learn to be, act to be.
Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and
making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next.
I know it was the last year, and till this year only I got it.
However, I'm truly appreciated for the organizers, although it was a photo but been selected make me feel thanksgiving. Why?
It was the first time that I wish my parent feel proud of it.
In future, I believes my parent wish I could choose a good path for myself and the loved one.
I could see my parent smile while the right moment.
It was the first time that I wish my parent feel proud of it.
In future, I believes my parent wish I could choose a good path for myself and the loved one.
I could see my parent smile while the right moment.
Thanks GOD.
I should admit... I'm lucky & happiness girl from this family.
They me - I them.
以下是我对他们爱的表达。
一年又一年， 风风雨雨。 爸爸妈妈为了我们呕心沥血，请您们接受我对您们的深深感谢和炎热的爱。
父爱，他仿佛让我看见他的优点胜于缺点，他是个容易亲近的人，永远充满奋斗的毅力。他是我永远最闪亮的一颗金星，虽然很渺小的一颗星，但他是最耀眼的一位。
温暖如娇阳， 宽广如江海！ 爸, 永远爱您的女儿！
母爱， 她是我永远赞赏最美丽的女人， 她有对迷人的眼神而我最不舍得就是看见她流泪，
她赐给我了生命，她总是唠唠叨叨但只为了无微不至地关心我们这些‘长不大’的孩子们。
妈妈，谢谢你，我永远爱您。
我的爱不能是语言的代表，我会努力用行动证明的。
爸妈，我 你。
爸妈，我 你。
by your loved daughter.
- Friday, October 07, 2011
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Pencil: I'm sorry
Eraser: For what? You didn't do anything wrong.
Pencil: I'm sorry because you get hurt because of me. Whenever I made a mistake, you're always
there to erase it. But as you make my mistakes vanish, you lose a part
of yourself. You get smaller and smaller each time.
Eraser: That's
true. But I don't really mind. You see, I was made to do this. I was
made to help you whenever you do something wrong. Even though one day, I
know I'll be gone and you'll replace me with a new one, I'm actually
happy with my job. So please, stop worrying. I hate seeing you sad. :)
I found this conversation between the pencil and the eraser very inspirational. Parents are like the eraser whereas their children are the pencil. They're always there for their children, cleaning up their mistakes. Sometimes along the way... they get hurt, and become smaller (older, and eventually pass on).
Though their children will eventually find someone new (spouse), but parents are still happy with what they do for their children, and will always hate seeing their precious ones worrying, or sad.
"All my life, I've been the pencil.. And it pains me to see the eraser that is my parents getting smaller and smaller each day.
For I know that one day, all that I'm left with would be eraser shavings and memories of what I used to have..."
This is to all the parents out there...
(Sources by website)
P.S.- I found this article was meaningful, therefore I wish to share it here.
In the family relation, we should learn what the article share here, please bear in mind that how our parent taught us, guide us, love us all the time.
In the love relation, we should took this as a learning matters.
If you can't be a pencil to write anyone's happiness, try to be a nice eraser to remove someone's sadness.
Florence
- Saturday, October 01, 2011
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你可知道
要女人清晨醒來
淩亂的面對一個愛的人
是需要有很大的勇氣
你可知道
當女人被男人
脫去自己的衣服
一絲不掛的在他面前
是需要多少的愛
你可知道
女人爲什麽會背朝你睡
因為她不喜歡看你的背影
如果你以後抱著她睡
她會安心一整個晚上
你可知道
女人把每一次的愛情
當作是初戀
也是這輩子最後一個來愛
你可知道
女人那麼愛吃醋不是因為不相信你
而是你在她心中太美好
她不希望這種美好倒映在別的女人眼中
你可知道
深愛你的女人在沖你發火以後
自己卻轉身不斷啜泣
你可知道
當女人頂著哭花的臉
走在街上
不管是不是有人在看她時
她的心已經快要死了
你可知道
她只會對她愛的男人嘮叨
也只會對她在乎的人耍性子
你可知道
她的任性 她的壞脾氣
其實都只是在對你撒嬌
希望你更重視她
你可知道
假若她不愛你
她根本不會對你發火
不會希望你去哄她
更不會為你掉眼淚
因為她不愛的人沒那本事
你可知道
當你離開她
留下她獨自一人
她有多大的期待和恐懼
而這一切都只是因為她愛你
而這一切都因為你還不夠懂她
女人知道太多不該知道的事情
男人不知道太多該知道的事情
於是，你們爭吵，你認為她脾氣不好，她認為你不夠遷就她
於是，你們冷戰，你以為她沒有完全接受你，她以為你不在
請給她一個擁抱一個吻，用你的擁抱你的吻去化解她心裡的
因為她只是害怕你的冷漠、轉身和安靜。。。。。。。。。
兩個深愛的人在一起，就要
互相包容，互相理解，互相體諒，互相信任，
否則當你們真正失去時將會遺憾終生。。。。。。
否則美好的未來也就在你們自己手中泯滅了！。。。。。。
希望每一個男人都能夠好好珍惜陪伴在你身邊的女人
她們為你付出過，不求回報
卻希望你們能夠讀懂，能夠牽著她們的手堅定地走下去
不要讓愛你的女人流淚
不要讓她傷心
更不要讓她絕望和死心！
因為女人一旦真愛了，失去她愛著的人
就意味著失去了整個世界...
女孩子20歲左右是她最美麗的。這時她的心地最善良，她
男孩子20左右的時候是他最暗淡的日子，這時什麼都沒有
An ♥ article I grab from my face-book notes.
- Monday, August 09, 2010
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如果你和你的她/他分隔两地，请不要放手。
哪怕你承受着很痛苦的思念，哪怕每天晚上都会睡不着。
只要你坚持了，那么你将拥有别人没有的幸福。
珍惜现在所拥有的才是你应该做的事，
他/她不希望等来的是空白。
有些事物等失去了，再回头就已经没有了，
当你发觉他/她是多么爱你，对你多重要的时候， 再回头说‘对不起’就已经晚了。
不是没句对不起都换来没关系的，
因为你们的等待是值得的，
虽然远隔千山万水。
但是她的心时时刻刻都放在你身上，
虽然你们想对方的时候，
只能发条短信， 虽然你不开心的时候，他没陪在你身旁。
但是不要埋怨他，难道他不想陪你吗？
找一个喜欢你的人容易，但是找一个用心爱你的人难。
距离就是考验你们感情的试卷，时间就是考试的题目。
茫茫人海可以找到一个心爱的人，这是多么大的勇气。
想你就是一份简单的幸福。
能等到你，和你永远在一起才是真正的幸福。
哪怕你承受着很痛苦的思念，哪怕每天晚上都会睡不着。
只要你坚持了，那么你将拥有别人没有的幸福。
珍惜现在所拥有的才是你应该做的事，
他/她不希望等来的是空白。
有些事物等失去了，再回头就已经没有了，
当你发觉他/她是多么爱你，对你多重要的时候， 再回头说‘对不起’就已经晚了。
不是没句对不起都换来没关系的，
因为你们的等待是值得的，
虽然远隔千山万水。
但是她的心时时刻刻都放在你身上，
虽然你们想对方的时候，
只能发条短信， 虽然你不开心的时候，他没陪在你身旁。
但是不要埋怨他，难道他不想陪你吗？
找一个喜欢你的人容易，但是找一个用心爱你的人难。
距离就是考验你们感情的试卷，时间就是考试的题目。
茫茫人海可以找到一个心爱的人，这是多么大的勇气。
想你就是一份简单的幸福。
能等到你，和你永远在一起才是真正的幸福。
*source from website : p- Tuesday, June 22, 2010
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