An Opportunity.

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An Opportunity

 It is not a problem. 
It is  [ An Opportunity ]  to make a change. 
Use everything as  [ An Opportunity ]  to understand, grow and expand. 
See everyday as  [ An Opportunity ]  to better yourself.




The meaning of [Life].

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Started to realize time fly so fast ... 
Have you ever asked yourself that ...
'Where am I going?' 'What am I doing?' 'Why are we here?'
'What is the meaning of Life?'

Are we primarily physical beings or spiritual beings?
People have struggled to tackle these questions. Do you?


Life is learning.
Life is growing.
Life is ...

Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away.

' When I was 5 years old, my mother always told me that happiness was the key to life. When I went to school, they asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up. I wrote down [Happy]. They told me I didn't understand the assignment. and I told them they didn't understand life.' by - John Lennon.
What is the meaning of Life?
The meaning of life is to give life a meaning.


What is the meaning of Life?

Is to find your GIFT, the purpose of life is to GIVE IT AWAY.


What is the meaning of Life?
Whatever you want it to be.


What is the meaning of Life?
You define it.


The meaning of Life.

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My beliefs create my personal world and give each experience its meaning. My mind constructs my world as I believe it to be. It's my unique reality and is the only world I will ever know. I created it and must live in it. As far as my life is concerned, there is no meaning to any event except for the meaning I choose.


Life is too FAST.

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Two things to aim at in life:-

1. Get what you want.
2. Enjoy it.
Only the wisest of mankind has achieved the second.

Philosophy of [L.I.F.E]

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A good sharing for readers while I was viewing the news feed from Facebook,
another philosophy of Life.

第一課
一個男人在他妻子洗完澡後准備進浴室洗澡。這時，門鈴響了。
妻子迅速用浴巾裹住自己衝到門口。
當她打開門時，鄰居鮑勃站在那兒。
在她開口前，鮑勃說，“你如果把浴巾拿掉，我給你800美元。”
想了一會兒，這個女人拿掉浴巾赤裸地站在鮑勃面前。幾秒鐘後，鮑勃遞給她800美元然後離開了。
女人重新裹好浴巾回到屋裡。
當她踏進浴室時，丈夫問她，“是誰呀？”
“是鄰居鮑勃。”她回答。
“哦，”丈夫說，“他有沒有提到還欠我800美元？”
故事寓意：
及時與同舟共濟的股東分享重要信息，將會避免不必要的曝光。

第二課
一個銷售員、一個辦事員和他們的經理步行去午餐時發現了一盞古代油燈。
他們摩擦油燈，一個精靈跳了出來。
精靈說：“我能滿足你們每人一個願望。”
“我先！我先！”辦事員說，“我想去巴哈馬群島，開著快艇，與世隔絕。”
倏！她飛走了。
“該我了！該我了！”銷售員說，“我想去夏威夷，躺在沙灘上，有私人女按摩師，免費續杯的冰鎮果汁朗姆酒，還有一生中的最愛。”
倏！他飛走了。
“OK, 該你了。”精靈對經理說。
經理回答：“我要那兩個蠢貨午飯後馬上回來工作！”
故事寓意：
永遠讓你的老板開口先。

第三課
一只鷹坐在高高的樹上休息，無所事事。
一只小兔子看見鷹並且問它，“我能像你一樣坐著什麼都不干嗎？”
鷹回答：“行啊，為啥不行。”
於是，兔子坐在鷹下面的地上休息。突然，一只狐狸出現了，它撲到兔子身上把它吃掉了。
故事寓意：
要想坐著無所事事，你必須坐在非常、非常高的位置。

第四課
一只小鳥飛去南方過冬。天實在太冷了。它凍僵了，掉在一片田野上。
它躺在那兒時，一頭母牛走過來在它身上拉了一堆屎。
凍僵的小鳥躺在糞堆裡，開始感覺到了溫暖。
牛糞確實使它暖和過來了。
它躺在溫暖的牛糞中，異常高興，並開始唱起歌來。
一只過路的貓聽到鳥叫趕過來看個究竟。
順著聲音，它發現了牛糞下的小鳥，並迅速把它拖出來吃掉了。

故事寓意：
(1) 並不是每個在你身上拉屎的都是你的敵人。
(2) 並不是每個把你………
拖出糞堆的都是你的朋友。
(3) 當你深陷糞堆中的時候，最好閉上你的鳥嘴
1)學會 沉默
有時候，你被人誤解，你不想爭辯，所以選擇沉默。本來就不是所有的人都得了解你，因此你認為不必對全世界喊話。卻也有時候，你被最愛的人誤解，你難過到不想爭辯，也只有選擇沉默。全世界都可以不懂你，但他應該懂，若他竟然不能懂，還有什麼話可說?生命中往往有連舒伯特都無言以對的時刻，畢竟不是所有的是非都能條列清楚，甚至可能根本沒有真正的是與非。那麼，不想說話，就不說吧，在多說無益的時候，也許沉默就是最好的解釋。
(2)至少 平靜
　　在你跌入人生谷底的時候，你身旁所有的人都告訴你：要堅強，而且要快樂。堅強是絕對需要的，但是快樂?在這種情形下，恐怕是太為難你了。畢竟，誰能在跌得頭破血流的時候還覺得高興？但是至少可以做到平靜。平靜地看待這件事，平靜地把其他該處理的事處理好。平靜，沒有快樂，也沒有不快樂。
　　
(3)學會彎腰 這會是我意外的收獲
　　和別人發生意見上的紛歧，甚造成言語上的衝突，所以你悶悶不樂，因為你覺得都是別人惡意。別再耿耿於懷了，回家去擦地板吧。拎一塊抹布，彎下腰，雙膝著地，把你面前這張地板的每個角落來回擦拭干淨。然後重新省思自己在那場衝突，所說過的每一句話。現在，你發現自己其實也有不對的地方了，是不是?你漸漸心平氣和了，是不是?有時候你必須學習彎腰，因為這個動作可以讓你謙卑。勞動身體的同時，你也擦亮了自己的心緒。而且，你還擁有了一張光潔的地板呢。這是你的第二個收獲。

(4)不要想 如果 當初
　　你說，人生是一條有無限多岔口的長路，永遠在不停地做選擇。如果只是選擇吃炒面或炒飯，影響似乎不大，但選擇讀什麼科系、做什麼工作、結婚或不結婚、要不要有孩子，每一個選擇都影響深遠，而不同的選擇也必定造就完全不一樣的人生。你又說，生命中不可承受之情，就在於人生沒有重來的機會啊。如果當初如何如何，現在就不會怎樣怎樣…這種充滿悵然的喃喃自語，還是別再多說了吧。每一個岔口的選擇其實沒有真正的好與壞，只要把人生看成是自己。獨一無二的創作，就不會頻頻回首如果當初做了不一樣的選擇。
　　
(5)努力吧 不管成功與否 至少曾經美麗
　　漫步林間，你看見一株藤蔓附著樹干，柔軟與堅實相互交纏，你感動於這靜美的一幕。讓幸福與歸屬就此駐足吧。你想。不知未來會有怎樣一番風雨摧折？也許藤將斷、樹會倒，也許天會荒，地將老。你又想。那麼，請時光停格在此刻吧。停格即是永恆。永恆裡若有這靜美的一刻，未來可能遭遇的種種劫難，便已得到了安慰與報償。

(6)保持單純
　　因為思慮過多，所以你常常把你的人生復雜化了。明明是活在現在，你卻總是念念不忘著過去，又憂心忡忡著未來；堅持攜帶著過去、未來與現在同行，你的人生當然只有一片拖泥帶水。而單純是一種恩寵狀態。單純地以皮膚感受天氣的變化，單純地以鼻腔品嘗雨後的青草香，單純地以眼睛統攝遠山近景如一幅畫。單純地活在當下。而當下其實無所謂是非真假。既然沒有是非，就不必思慮；沒有真假，就無須念念不忘又憂心忡忡。無是非真假，不就像在做夢一樣了嗎?是呀，就單純地把你的人生當成夢境去執行吧。
　　
(7)偶爾’俗氣’…
　　吃多了健康食品，偶爾你也想啃一啃鴨舌頭和鹽酥雞。看多了大師名劇，偶爾你也想瞄一瞄耳光摔不完眼淚掉不完的連續劇。聽多了古典音樂，偶爾你也想唱一唱愛他一百年又恨他一萬年的流行歌曲。你知道健康食品對健胃整腸有意義，大師名劇對培養氣質有意義，古典音樂對提升性靈有意義，可是，偶爾你其實並不想讓自己時時刻刻活得那麼有意。人生不需要把自己綁得那麼緊。偶爾的小小放縱，是道德的。靈氣充滿或許接近大人，但偶爾的俗氣會更平易近人。

(8)控制情緒 別浪費了~
　　今天的你，是不開心的你，因為有人在言語間刺傷了你。你不喜歡吵架，所以你離開；可是你只是離開了那，卻沒有離開被那人傷害的情境，因此你愈想愈生氣。愈有氣，你就愈沒有力氣去理會別的事情，許多更該用心去做去想去處理的事件，就在你漫天漫地的心煩意亂之中，被輕忽被漠視被省略了。因為，你只是一心一意地在生氣。在情緒上做文章，這是對自己的浪費，而且是很壞的浪費。畢竟，生氣也是要花力氣的，而且生氣一定傷元氣。所以，聰明如你，別讓情緒控制了你，當你又要生氣之前，不妨輕聲地提醒自己一句：“別浪費了。”
　　
(9)抓住最好的時機 絕不錯過
　　你曾經買了一件很喜歡的衣裳卻舍不得穿，鄭重地供奉在衣櫃裡；許久之後，當你再看見它的時候，卻發現它已經過時了。所以，你就這樣與它錯過了。你也曾經買了一塊漂亮的蛋糕卻舍不得吃，鄭重地供奉在冰箱裡；許久之後，當你再看見它的時候，卻發現它已經過期了。所以，你也這樣與它錯過了。沒有在最喜歡的時候上身的衣裳，沒有在最可口的時候品嘗的蛋糕，就像沒有在最想做的時候去做的事情，都是遺憾。生命也有保存期限，想做的事該趁早去做。如果你只是把你的心願鄭重地供奉在心裡，卻未曾去實行，那麼唯一的結果，就是與它錯過，一如那件過時的衣裳，一如那塊過期的蛋糕。

(10)偶爾的出離軌道
　　某次你搭火車打算到A地去，中途卻忽然臨時起意在B地下了車。也許是別致的地名吸引了你，也許是偶然一瞥的風景觸動了你，總之，你就這樣改變了本來預定的行程，然後經歷了一場充滿驚奇的意外旅行。A地是你原先的目標，B地卻讓你體會了小小的冒險。回憶起來，你說，那是一次令你難忘的出軌經驗。生命中的許多時候不也如此？心無旁騖地奔赴唯一的目的，不過是履行了原本的行程而已；離開預設的軌道，你才有機會發現其他的風景。
　　
(11)悄悄 悄悄地 回歸平靜..
　　曾經有一段時間，你心情低落，甚至懶得拉開窗簾，看著窗外的陽光。因此你當然也忘了去看看，窗台上那一盆每天都需要喝水的瑪格麗特。如此不知過了多久，總算有一天，你度過了心情的低潮，同時也想起了你的瑪格麗特。天啊，可憐的花，她還活著嗎？你戰戰兢兢地拉開窗簾，卻見她迎風招搖，花顏可掬。原來在過去的這段日子裡，你雖然忘了喂她喝水，老天卻沒忘了以雨露眷顧她呢。許多事物悄悄地在你的視線之外進行，而且悄悄地安排好了它們自己。天生萬物，天養萬物，一切其實無須擔心……你只要做的就是做好自己，不留任何遺憾…足矣。
我要拿這篇文章以此來借鑒自己,提醒自己………

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The Fold-able Magic.

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What would you do when a paper cash on your hand? 
Does the paper cash will become like above picture that I showed you here..?
It recall me back, I borrow some cash to my friend, and the time they return me back, I was stunned because they make this magically fold-able paper cash.
Well... it was nice when they actually return the money (small amount) to you by this way because I did feel heavy heart to unfold and use it.
However, it was a sharing to you that you may use this way of cash return to your friend or someone who're special for you.

Regards,
Florence



2013 Resolution

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New Year Resolution 2013
New Year's eve has always been a time for looking back to the past, and more importantly, forward to the coming year. It's a time to reflect on the changes we want/need to make and resolve to follow through on those changes.
What is your New Year Resolution for this year 2013?

 Refer back to my resolution 2012, I put a smiles of achievement that I had a good one for past. Yet, there are few of resolution that will be carry forward to this year.
Here's the resolution plan:-

 [ 2013 Resolution ]
1) Spend more time with Family & Friends 
I would appreciate loved ones and spend more time with family and friends this year.

 2) Fit in Fitness / Weight Loss
Last year, I had implement the fitness plan as the regular exercise has been associated with more health benefits than anything else. This year I might couldn't join for fitness but perhaps I could plan to have outdoor jogging in the early morning for weekend. As you all know, exercise reduces the risk of some cancers, increases longevity, helps achieve and maintain weight loss, enhances mood, relieves stress, lowers blood pressure, and so on. In short, exercise keeps you healthy and makes you feel better more. :) 
It's time to set a reasonable goals and staying focused are the most important element in weight loss plan. 

 3) Enjoy Life More
Nowadays, most of us having hectic, stressful lifestyles therefore it's an important step to become more happier and healthier of you! Learn to relax, learn to enjoy the life, you have to bring balance to your body, mind and soul or just get out and try something new!

 4) Saving Plan / Get out of Debt
Learn to set a good saving plan to repay as much your debt. Learn to set a saving plan to implement the wishes you want... travel? house? car? gadget?

 5) Learn something New
Perhaps learn something new for this year? perhaps you are considering a career change, learn a new language, or another knowledge that you find interesting. 

 6) Manage to control pressure & attitude
With each passing day, I learn to be more mature with mindset to face the difficulties.
I must plough on somehow in spite of all the difficulties.

 7) _______ % of the secret plan is being executed.
It was a secret plan that I'm looking forward, and I hope I could achieve one day.

 8) _____ (Loved One) Looking for the true love.
I hope [it] gives me the strong motivation, faith to move on! Despite what it has happened previously, I know I am still the emotional girl but I'll learn and be thankful for that.

 9) All of the above wishes come true.
10) Pray for it.

 Blessed for this prosperous new year!

 Warm regards,

 Florence

Wisdom Quotes

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What have you seen in this picture?


Every single word that appear in mind right... instead of the color ropes.

There are different words that pop in my mind.
A simple way that indicates the meaning of itself.

Truth
Three things cannot be long hidden: the sun, the moon, and the truth.

Freedom
All the great things are simple, and many can be expressed in a single word: Freedom  Justice, Honor, Duty, Mercy, Hope.

Believe
Believe that life is worth living and your belief will help create the fact.
Believe in yourself! 
Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy.

Chill
Night time is so much better than day time, its more chill.

Dream
All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them.
A dream doesn't become reality through magic; it takes sweat, determination and hard work.
Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world.
All human beings are also dream beings. Dreaming ties all mankind together.
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To accomplish great things, we must not only act, but also dream; not only plan, but also believe.
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and
I believe in Miracles!




The Naughty Of Her - Yes Me!

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I always been complaint by someone how Naughty of myself.
Am I really that notty?
Um-mm.. for some moment, I admitted.

See... my mum also will act naughty like me. 


Mustache pose.


Acting cute I am.




Be Naughty. Be Fun. Be Joy!
No matter what age you are right now, be naughty just to create fun to bring joy for someone who surround you.
That's Life.


You can make the Spaghetti Carbonara too!

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How to cook the Spaghetti Carbonara?

Well, you can order a plate of Spaghetti Carbonara for yourself at any restaurant.
But... How about you do it yourself?
Cook & Taste it yourself.
I had do some research and the steps are incredibly simple and you can make it yourself at home.
If you can't wait for it, be prepare for those ingredients and follow my step. 

The Ingredients:
  • 2 egg yolks
  • 150ml of low fat/full cream milk
  • 4 slices of back bacon (or more by your choice!)
  • 140 grams of spaghetti
  • Olive oil
  • Parmesan Cheese Powder
  • 3/4 tablespoon of salt
  • Ground black pepper for taste
  • Parsley for taste & nice decoration. 
The Ingredients
#1 Prepare those ingredients. You can get it at hypermarket or cold storage.

You just need egg yolk.
#2 Separate the egg yolks.
 
Firstly, cut the back bacons into strips. Make sure every strip has bits of fat attached.
 #3 Get a plate wok and put few tablespoon of olive oil to fry the back bacons. (opps sorry, forget to take picha!)

Now cook the pasta by follow the instructions on its packet, you can add bit of salt.
 #4 Get a pot and cook the spaghetti before slightly heat your back bacon. 

Egg Yolks
 

Egg Yolks + low fat cream milk

Put the Parmesan Cheese powder with your favor volume.
 #5 Mixed the egg yolks + Low Fat Milk + Parmesan Cheese Powder.

Then drain the pasta and put it aside first.
#6 Drain the pasta like the above image.

Put the pasta back into the wok it was cooked in.
#7 Put the pasta back into the plate wok and put the mixed ingredients (egg yolks+milk+parmesan cheese) and stir it together.

#8 Put the parsley to make it taste nice too!

Plate it and garnish with the leftover bacon strips.
Slightly deco it on your plate.... Done!
Simple & Delicious creamy porky bacon Spaghetti Carbonara you have now!
How's the taste? 

Enjoy!


Imbalance path.

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Imbalance. 

It's been few months plus I didn't drop by here, I always remind myself to take a short time to upload a post, yes at least one post to be contribute.... 
Yet, the more I remind myself the more I neglect it, am I giving myself an excuse?
Myself know it...
Perhaps when the time I wish to express out via here.

 Recently, I have a big question keep on flash in my mind.
How much could I stand balance with the path that I had chosen?
What is the right direction for me to move forward?
What is the purpose I am doing right now?
Am I doing the things I want or else?
Should I follow own way or their way to choose the path for myself?
Question keep pop on my mind and where can I find the real answer?

I can't deny that I'm kind of lazy type, or actually I want it simple way, systematic way.
Dear readers, if you did read my previous post, you must know that I had changed my job, yea..the 2nd job that I have right now.
So far so good...?

Another question that makes me feel hard to answer, good doesn't mean happy... bad doesn't mean worse at all ...
Perhaps I don't find any benefit / value for myself.
 Am I learn anything from my current job? Yes, I did but still I understand I have to learn myself.
I am appreciated she (senior executive) guide me right now due to she is going to leave soon. 
Somehow, It seems like I am learning in a very messy & complicated environment, or should said that the way they operate not systematic at all.
Human being? Rules? Excuse? Attitude?

Then only I realize why those staff 'move in move out' frequently..
Any benefits I could gain from here? 
It does, but not that much.
And now,I'm going to handle shipping (yes due to instruction by management) & due to my senior gonna leave. 
And I keep telling myself, I'd try my best even though it does feel pressure.
And someone told me 'it's all about job, take it easy'. 
Does it also mean, 'you take the salary and you should make the contribution.'

Slowly slowly...I believe I will foresee the consequences.
Alright, telling myself that I am gaining experience actually.
 I choose to wrote a post here which I believe I'll feel more better.
It's time to sleep because my brain still thinking what's to follow up and the step to do the things.
God bless me.



A short break...I smile.

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A short break for days.
It's been a long time I do not give myself a break and I found those picture from my personal storage.
I found myself smiling.
And I realize...smile more to cheers your ownselves and others as well.
How long have you smile once a time?
I have no idea how much I could smile all the time but I told myself, keep smiling how much you can.












This is how much of my expression that I always used to be.
Smile & Laugh
Plays important part in life.
If you see someone without a smile, Give them one of YOURS like this. 
=)

2012 Resolution.

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10.9.8....3.2.1!

31.December.2011
This year going to off, and heading to another new year - 2012!
Year by year, I have my own resolution.
Back to last year of 2011,I had few resolutions and 50% were done!
I'm happy that I am able to achieve it, parent feel proud of my achievement. 
So... How about this coming NEW year -2012.


 
[ 2012 Resolution ]


10.9.8.7.6.5.4.3.2.1! Happy New Year! 
While everyone was countdown-ING & shouting, where am I?
he-he.. Don't feel curious! I choose to stay & celebrate at home as I don't like to crowded with people, on this special day I flash back what I have done, what's my unfinished task, half-achievement, and so on.


And now... I'm going to scheme out my new year resolution. Let me jot it down here.
Roar! What was [it] for this coming 2012? 
1st thing that comes to my mind when I look back at year 2011.
Recalled back everyone was concern and be anxious about the 'End of the world'.
Everyone was conjecture is the 'End of the world' will be happen in this date - 20121221?
No one know... was it a true prediction or it was just a rumor? 
However, I guess most of the people doesn't believe what Maya had predicted earlier, or it might be just a failed statement?
I believe everyone still strive for their survival. Don't you?
As he told me that... [Be Positive]... so, be positive and I'll cherish the moment with my family and loved one.



Stick back here, my ...
1st resolution will be : LOVE. PEACE.
2. Blessed days for my family & Loved one & relatives + friends.
3. Have a better career advancement & MORE income.
4. MORE savings & plan for my travel list.
5. Boost up the communication skills and certain knowledge.
6. Manage to control pressure and attitude. (Learn how to balance between work vs entertainment).
7. More savings for PRESENT & FUTURE.
8. ______ % of the [secret plan] is being executed.
9. More time for _______ .
10. _______ (Loved one) will still be the ONLY one for me.
11. All of the wishes above will come true.
12. Pray for [it].


*cross hand & pray.*
Blessed for another prosperous new year!


Warm Regards,
Florence