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HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MUM!

 Ta-Da...

Surprise for her!

We booked & transmit our lil' request to waitress what we wanted secretly.

I knew my mum feel tired that day, and she kept on yawn-ing.
Initial, I hope bunch of staff sing for her but plan changed which I request few of the staff is enough for the sing as I don't wanna frightened my mum.
Ha-ha, I couldn't imagine how funny reaction of my mum while she received the 'surprise'!
Which we also believe Mum feel the sweet-nest of blessings & the first surprise. 
Well.. Mission Completed.

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See!
Her reaction. 
She can't wait to try the birthday's surprise cake.

I'm moving to new house with my lovely family.
While kind of excited, I do feel kind of heavy heart of my current old house.
An area that brought lot of memories.smiles.tears.laugh.and so on. It was a place that I been stayed & grown up for more than 17 years plus, a place that I always found warm from it. A place that I always brought my sister brother out to the street, the field playground, shoplot for some walk and play.
A familiar bus stop that I used to stand & wait for the bus, a familiar 7-11 that I always walk in and so on.

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Finally.
I am now moving to a new house which give us more warmer environment.
Most importantly,thanks & appreciate what parent had given us, family together we have it all.
The love of a family is life's greatest blessing.
The family is the school of duties - founded on love.
In family life, Love is the oil that eases friction, the cement that binds closer together, and the music that brings harmony.


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❤

Florence.

Hmm. I found this picture is nice, right? Special wishes for your guys, Merry Merry X'mas in advance, Hoo hoo hoo! :D

This is the dining place we went for, Restauran Korea- Myung Ga.

No joke! it's liquor from Korea named as - Soju! Another companion with korea food.

Honestly, it seems fun while drinking liquor with family, we had fun and I wish next time whole family attend for this kind of dining. :)

Korea pork meat.

Hmmm I reckon due to the restaurant still in new, therefore the taste rate of the food doesn't match with my expectation. Perhaps it doesn't suit my taste which I tried another korea food before. 

Ta-da! The 'target'.

I feel satisfied while I found them! hehe. 

Picture posted as memory recorded.

Hookay! that's all for today.

Stay Tuned.

Regards, 

Florence.

Another public holiday for me in this month, I suppose go out for own entertainment.

Yet, I know even though I go out but I couldn't find myself smile like last time again.

At the same time, I do not find any meaning of it, I know I rather stay at home in the end.

I know what am I doing, it doesn't matter right or wrong, at least I found myself I'm willing to do so.

Day by day, Time by time, I learn how to conquer the hollowness.

No matter how tough of it, I still hold tight the persevere with [it].
All along, only blog make me feel released from what I have keep in _____ .

Lone cup of.

Uphold it. This is all I could do. Today such a bad luck for me, the stupid car messed my day again, sigh. While driving to home, the light instruction keep wink with me and I don't know what was that? The night seems dark, I was feeling afraid of the incident. Initially, dad ask me try to drive home but the car do not wish to listen the instruction. In sudden, my car breakdown accidentally and stop over at the roadside which make me feel scare and nervous. While being forced to stop at there, few of the stranger or motorcycles trying to stop and peep on me, the way they stare at me feel so scary. I was trying to start the car engine but it makes the car get worse. I have no idea what's wrong with the car and I was trying to contact my parent again and inform them the incident and they nag and scold me again. sigh. I do not feel good at all as I never expect the incident happen in that way. At the same time, my personal phone couldn't work well. Grrr... I wish to talk with dad  more while waiting but he choose to hang up my call. The distance seems far from home to here, I was waiting but heart beat jumped unusually as the road look grisly. All the time, I learn to be brave as I can but sometime I really ... On that moment, I make a call for [it], wish to get some __________ to comfort. Unfortunately, I am in the bad luck. I question myself, am I look so that disgusted or that annoy? I couldn't give myself an answer, perhaps I should admit I am. sigh weep :'( I cross my hand and pray, pray for the car and myself. I admit sometime still I feel insecure when I'm in the dark-side or remote area. In the end, mom keep on blaming me for the incident, dad doesn't feel happy and how do i? My car has to send for maintenance again. AGAIN, it is going to kill my wallet AGAIN. (the price amount, you know.sigh.)  I really depressed, really bad luck. I pray again, Dear GOD. Please give me some luck!

That day, my youngest sister share me a surprise that she told me, she went to sing K with friends and she saw a picture (as below) in the Music Video sang by 林宇中 <<叫阮的名>> then only I realize my picture was selected by the organizers as good memoirs for myself & my parent.

I never expect they will select my photo, I'm extremely excited when my sister told me that.

It recalls me that last year before I went to UK for my study, I read a new from newspaper that one of the Hokkien song from Rynn Lim (林宇中) searching some photos to put in the music video- 林宇中重新演绎《叫阮的名》 征求溫馨合照拍摄MV‏.

 Without much hesitate, I found this picture, attach it and mail some words that I wish to voice out for my beloved parent and world.

It was my Diploma graduation photo. As my point of view, photo bring a story behind the scene. Parent always wish to take photo with their children to keep the best memories.

For parent, they wish to wash the photo and keep it as record. While they getting old, they will take the photos out and reminisce the memoirs as much as they have.

I recall back that it was the first time I took picture with them by formal attire(Graduation gown), it is how important of the moment, the way they feel proud when they saw their kid grown up & graduated & on the stage to receive the cert.

Guys, still remember... when you're a little kid, parent hold your hand and send you for the kinder-garden school. I bet you might shed tear, feel strange to the new place but parent wish you understand the enjoyment of study.

When you're ready for primary school, parent send you to school by carry your bag and water bottle. They knew how heavy of the books and your homework, still they remind you this & that and this proves they loved you.

They even send you for any talented class or tuition class to motivate your knowledgeable.
When the time you're ready for secondary school, they send you as well but they also wish you're ready to learn independent which you have to decide the things by yourself.

And what they was worries about, your Rebellious period, your laziness, your decision.

They knew you might start mingle with new friends, and worry you learn the thing they don't wish it happen.

They loved you, therefore argument begin with parent while your rebellious period. Still they wish to taught you the right thing as they loved you.

While you're ready for college/University stage, parent let you choose what you wish to achieve. 

They will give some guidance if you need it, still they will respect what you wish to choose.

Parent know they couldn't hold you that much more, it's time to let yourself handle it & learn how much you can.

You decide the path that you wish to have. One thing you should know, while you fall down, parent still there to hold you up but not the every-time.
While you fall down, you should learn to be tough, climb up yourself to get the thing you wanted.

Bear in mind, parent walked through the path they been before and it's your time to learn & appreciate yourself & them.
 Don't give up yourself or them. Learn to be, act to be.

Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next.

I know it was the last year, and till this year only I got it.

However, I'm truly appreciated for the organizers, although it was a photo but been selected make me feel thanksgiving. Why?
It was the first time that I wish my parent feel proud of it.
In future, I believes my parent wish I could choose a good path for myself and the loved one.
I could see my parent smile while the right moment.

Thanks GOD. 

I should admit... I'm lucky & happiness girl from this family.

They ♥ me - I ♥ them.

I found this conversation between the pencil and the eraser very inspirational. Parents are like the eraser whereas their children are the pencil. They're always there for their children, cleaning up their mistakes. Sometimes along the way... they get hurt, and become smaller (older, and eventually pass on).

Though their children will eventually find someone new (spouse), but parents are still happy with what they do for their children, and will always hate seeing their precious ones worrying, or sad.

"All my life, I've been the pencil.. And it pains me to see the eraser that is my parents getting smaller and smaller each day. 
For I know that one day, all that I'm left with would be eraser shavings and memories of what I used to have..."



This is to all the parents out there...

(Sources by website) 


P.S.- I found this article was meaningful, therefore I wish to share it here.
In the family relation, we should learn what the article share here, please bear in mind that how our parent taught us, guide us, love us all the time.
In the love relation, we should took this as a learning matters.
If you can't be a pencil to write anyone's happiness, try to be a nice eraser to remove someone's sadness.

邵美琪. Maggie Shiu
Aw w. wish to take a picture with her & Kenny (HK actor) but too bad they was busy for media interview.

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How was the decoration? Look grand,right?

A mini 'sam yi' from a pair of them.

Congratulations! Valerie & Ji Woong.


Do you like it? D' Light. A romantic sign of it. :)



Yes! Zoom in steamed KING CRAB. It was my first time tried for this, therefore I shoot it down as wish to share here. Guess what? it look nice, but my finger get hurt accidentally due to their sharp surface. But still... not that bad. "crab crab crab"

Special dessert I tried for. Sweet dou... just like their marriage. :)


Why a picture of swimming pool of KEC here? It recall me that last time when I was secondary school, dad got the family membership and brought us here for swim, for exercise, blah blah blah. It brought lot of memories for me, seriously.


Last & not least.
As the Malaysian will yell 'Yum....Seng!' and Korean will yell 'Gan.....Bei!' (干杯）.

Am enjoy the food for the night. At the same time, I keep stare on my hand-phone,waiting a text that I wish to have day by day.

P.S.- The next working day, I don't feeling well and I reckon I consumed too much of food & alcohol recently. However, I feel warm that 'Special' of you concern on me. Merci!

Florence